I’d like to know your rules for having a friends with benefits arrangement.

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Yes, I’d be happy to share the best friends with benefits rules so you can hook up without things being complicated.

It’s certainly possible, but it requires that you look at things honestly and set clear boundaries for yourself. (aka: how to have a friends with benefits arrangement without drama, difficulty, or disaster) This means no neighbors, no co-workers, no ex-boyfriends, no guys that are currently your friend and no people within your social circle.

It also requires that you know yourself – some women can have a friends with benefits arrangement with a guy and have absolutely no problem with it… It’s a mixture of biology, personality, and psychology that will determine if you’re someone who can do it or not… I am not encouraging or advocating having a friends with benefits arrangement in your life or as a lifestyle. I’m simply answering your question and speaking to what friends with benefits rules will lead to the most successful results – those results being to get what you want without hurting anyone (including yourself) in the process. Really, the term “friends with benefits” is misleading because having a FWB arrangement is sleeping with a guy who’s your friend.

I want you to get what you want for the greatest good of everyone involved. It’s an arrangement that you define from the get-go as a purely sexual arrangement…

and when it ends, it needs to be clean without loose ends (for you or for him).

Now, I understand that some of you might be reading this article specifically because you are sleeping with a friend and you want it to become something more.

You’ll still benefit from reading this article, but read this article as well: MORE: How to Turn a Friend With Benefits Into Something More In our modern society, it is common for people to want to add something to their life to fill some sort of emotional void.

This is a recipe for disaster in a friends with benefits type of relationship since it’s easy to slide from wanting to fill a void into making a friends with benefits arrangement into something more. and whole, then your focus needs to be on living your life where you’re 100% in touch with your grounded, stable, ever-present sense of being OK you bring any sort of relationship into the picture (whether it’s a friends with benefits arrangement or any other type of relationship dynamic). You’re not looking for (and you won’t have) a “happy ending”…

FWB arrangements are super clean and simple: a relationship purely for sexual enjoyment and exploration. FWB arrangements are best thought of as a bonus to be enjoyed in your life, but not something you need to hold on to or possess… but you practice safe sex and educate yourself on what it means to have safe sex.